Learning to be assertive- it's not about getting your way all the time, But standing for what you believe in, communicating your point to others without using aggressive behaviour, and being able to say no , or yes to people.

I tend to be a more passive person. A person, that will go with the flow, and in every situations i've faced in my life, i tend to be the sheep, not the sheperd. Saying yes when I mean no, smiling even when I'm hurting or frustrated. It gets on my nerves sometimes, how passive I can be. And the fact, that when i have an opinion about something, I'll not speak up and let others have their say, and mine would just silently slip away. I'm always afraid of everything.

I'm scared of, being laughed at when I did something silly
I'm scared, about facing the real world, where people can show their cruelty in such artistic ways, yet get away with it.
I'm scared that what I'm trying to say, would not make sense.
I'm scared of public speaking
I'm scared , of people talking to me. To avoid, this..i analyse everyone around me, and just ignore people, who are most likely to talk to me.
This list goes on and on...

It will never stop, unless I take charge of my life. I can keep on blaming myself, and hoping to be more confident and assertive, or I can start learning to be more confident and assertive and start loving myself as an individual.

I can never be someone other then me, that someone can never be me.
I have the right, to ask, to be heard, to fight for what I believe in, to laugh, to cry, to make mistakes.
To fight hard to achieve my dream, and even if i've failed once, I have the right to try it again, again and again.

Others can help you along your way, but the path to your dreams is yours to create.
My 20 years of life, I've depended on everyone, to give me what I need. They can give me everything i've ever needed, but I know, they can't give me my dream.

It is only when, I no one else but I start taking the first step, then my dream would start to come true
The first step is the hardest, but it gets easier.

Start living your life, Wylyn.. constantly waiting for others to give you answers or cleaning up your mess is not going to take u anywhere. Believe in who you are, believe in your dreams. Take the focus off yourself, and focus on where your passion lies. And most importantly, take responsibility for every decision you've made and the consequences that would follow.

It is ok, if someone doesn't like you. It is ok if you don't like someone. You have the right to like or dislike someone,as much as they have the right to like or dislike you. if you live your life, hoping everyone will like you AS A PERSON, then you are on your way to self destruction.

You will soon start a long journey of self-doubt, seeking for answers, to why no matter what you do, this person never seems to be able to like you.

Are you going to hate yourself, for every person that dislikes you?
Or are you going, to brush it off, and tell yourself, that it's ok, I don't have to like them back.

No one can tells you how worthy or unworthy you are as a person, unless it is God himself.

You look in your mirror , and u see a ugly duckling.
He looks at you, and sees a beautiful swan .

Hello. I'm WyWy. [bold, underline, strike, italicize]



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